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<v Speaker 1>Hey, it's Rachel Cookee, your Modern Mentor.</v>

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I'm the founder of Lead Above Noise

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where we help leaders activate performance

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and engagement without burning out.

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I've been speaking to leadership teams across industries

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about how to do this effectively

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and I would love to spend time with yours.

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Reach out anytime at rachel@leadabovenoise.com to inquire.

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Hey, before we jump into today's episode,

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can I ask a quick favor?

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If you're a regular listener or even an occasional one

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and you have something to say about the show,

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I'd love it if you'd leave a quick rating

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or review in your podcast app.

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Kind of the best way to help the show find new listeners

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and couldn't we all use Boost at work?

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So one of my favorite things about hosting this show is

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getting to talk to real life listeners who reach out.

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I've had half a dozen or so of these conversations recently,

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and do you wanna guess the one thing

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that has come up in every single one of them?

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It is morale, like it's low.

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In the past few weeks, I've talked

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to people working in government, in healthcare,

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in tech, in retail.

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And while it may show itself differently,

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reality is we are all struggling with a feeling

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of low morale these days.

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You know that blue melancholy feeling that we're all here,

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but we'd kind of rather be somewhere else.

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And this is a serious issue like

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for our collective mental health as well

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as our productivity and our impact.

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Everything suffers when morale is low,

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and one of the challenges I'm seeing is too many companies

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or leaders thinking it's about perks

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or parties when it's really about creating a culture

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where everyone feels valued and connected and supported.

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On the best part, you don't need a huge budget

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or major initiatives to make this happen.

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Sometimes the smallest shifts create the biggest impacts.

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I've had the pleasure of working with teams in many

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of these same industries

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and part of our work together has been to choose

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and implement low

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or no cost strategies designed to really turn things around.

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And today I'd love to share seven of my favorites

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with you just to get the creative juices flowing.

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So if your workplace is looking a little gray,

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let's see if we can infuse just a small dose of sunshine.

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Here we go. Idea number one,

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build a team recognition wall.

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I've mentioned before that my dad loves like loves Hallmark

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movies and sometimes I sit with him

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and I fall under that syrupy spell.

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Often in these movies there's a scene

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where some good doer does something quietly in the

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background to make sure the thing happens.

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The couple finds their connection or the kid wins the prize.

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I love these characters, but I'm not one of them,

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and I think most of us aren't, and that's totally okay.

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We wanna feel seen when we've done something good.

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We deserve to be seen.

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Whether the good we've done was big

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or small, we don't ever need to apologize for wanting

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to feel recognized for it.

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I talk to a lot of leaders who think

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that they need big budgets

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and overwrought programs to bring recognition to life,

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but really you don't need any of this.

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Me, I like a recognition wall, can be physical

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or virtual, whatever works,

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but it's just a place where people are encouraged to post

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and read about the small victories

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their colleagues have shown.

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Not just the big shiny wins,

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but the small gestures of kindness or creativity.

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Just create a space for people to call each other out.

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Hey Jane, your insight in last week's meeting really shifted

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our thinking, or Amaya, your advice to me ahead of

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that sales meeting was a game changer.

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Thank you. Small quick notes to see and be seen.

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You would be amazed at the shift this might deliver.

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Idea number two, walking one-on-one meetings

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because please, the sitting, the staring at screens,

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it's enough and sometimes it's necessary,

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but when it's not, slowly step away

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and do a walking meeting.

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I do these as often as possible

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and it changes my mood pretty dramatically.

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Take your one-on-one meeting outside, walk

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around the block pace in your backyard.

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Just get moving. If you're remote, invite your colleague

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to step outside while on their side of the call.

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The movement shifts the energy,

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it makes the conversation feel lighter

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and it helps you both connect in a more natural way.

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You'd be surprised how much easier it is

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to have real meaningful conversations when you're not stuck

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in the same chair staring at the same screen.

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Idea three, experiment with ownership.

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You've heard me talk about meetings sucking our souls

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out through our eyeballs.

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The struggle is real, but it doesn't have to be.

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If you know you're running a meeting

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that could be better in some way, like more efficient

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or more fun or more action oriented,

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why not give someone else a chance to run it next time?

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It's a great way to give yourself a little bit

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of breathing room while giving someone else the

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opportunity to be creative.

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Try rotating the responsibility of setting the agenda,

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facilitating the discussion,

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or experimenting with a new format.

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Fresh perspectives bring fresh energy,

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and when people feel like they have ownership over

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how their time is spent, they bring more focus

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and engagement to the table.

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No one wants to sit through another boring meeting,

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but giving people the chance to shake things up.

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This is where some magic can happen.

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Idea four, create the help wanted and offered space.

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Asking for help can be hard.

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People don't wanna seem like they're struggling

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or falling behind or adding

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to someone else's plate, but we can make it easier.

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I've seen some teams set up a standing optional

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meeting on the shared calendar.

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The rules are simple. If you're in a pickle or a bind

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or you're in a season of having insight

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or capacity to share, you show up.

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Someone in need presents their challenge

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and anyone present can offer

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to help in whatever way they can.

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Most people leave the meeting as both provider

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and receiver of assistance in some way.

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It's an awesome tactic for building care

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and connection while keeping everyone on task and supported.

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The key is normalizing both asking for and offering help

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because when teams support each other,

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the whole organization moves forward.

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Idea five, create a quit list.

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Most teams are great at adding new things, new projects,

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new meetings, new reports,

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but when was the last time you stopped doing

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something intentionally?

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Every quarter or month, sit down as a team

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and ask, what's taking up time without adding value?

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Maybe it's an old report that no one reads

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or a process that feels redundant

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or standing meeting that has lost its purpose.

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Cut. What isn't serving you?

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Morale isn't just about doing more of what's good,

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it's about shutting down what's sucking your souls out.

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Idea six round robin, quick insights.

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A great team isn't just working together,

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they're learning together,

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but learning doesn't have to be formal.

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At the start of each team meeting,

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have everyone on the call share one

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thing they learned this week.

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It can be a work related insight, a tip from a podcast

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or even a random fun fact.

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The goal is to create a culture of curiosity

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and sharing where people are constantly growing

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and staying engaged with new ideas.

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And finally, idea number seven, the ask Me Anything hub.

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We all, as they say, contain multitudes

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and we like to showcase what we know and love.

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I've seen teams successfully set up an a MA

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or ask me Anything hub where each member of the team

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lists the things they consider themselves

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somewhat expert on.

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It doesn't mean you know everything,

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but just that you have some knowledge

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and you're happy to share.

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Like if it were me, I would list workshop

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and leader offsite design, weightlifting for Women,

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and obviously Golden Girls Trivia

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because sometimes it's about the work

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and sometimes it's about connecting with people

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who share your interests, even if they're quirky.

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Have everyone participating share their topics

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and just post it somewhere everyone can see.

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You'd be amazed at the expertise

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that gets tapped on the new moments

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of connection that start to happen.

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I hope if morale is a challenge in your workplace,

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that at least one

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of these ideas sounds like something worth trying.

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Just remember, you don't need a massive budget

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or major overhaul.

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Just small increments of connection, of purpose,

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of shared experience can really change the game.

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If you try one or you have others to share, let me know.

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Shoot me a note anytime at rachel@leadabovenoise.com.

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And if your organization or team needs a boost

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or it's a workshop, a keynote, or a pulse check, let's talk.

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