Speaker 1: Hey, it's Rachel Cook, your modern mentor.
I'm the founder of Lead Above Noise,
where we help leaders activate performance, lead
through change, and dial burnout all the way down.
If your team or organization is ready
to reignite its motivation
and drive, I'd love to support you.
Shoot me a note at rachel@leadabovenoise.com
anytime, and let's talk.
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And now speaking of feeling motivated, like are you,
these days in general, it feels like I'm seeing people
around me climb through sludge
like they're just operating at a lower frequency
and it's feeling harder and harder to just lean in
and be productive and do the thing.
Are you feeling this at all
or seeing it around you, this dip in motivation?
If so, let's try to resist the urge just
for today to judge it.
We try to push through it or blame ourselves or our schedule
or our inbox or our willpower.
But what if the dip is actually just trying
to tell us something?
Sometimes a lack of motivation is actually a signal
that something needs our attention.
So today let's talk about ways to decode that signal
to move into curiosity over judgment.
Let's talk about four
of the most common scenarios I'm seeing
and some ways you might combat it.
If one of these feels like I'm talking to you,
the first one is, honestly, I just don't care
that much about this work.
Do you ever have that moment where you're staring at a task
and your brain is like a hard pass?
You're not lazy and you're not broken.
You might just be missing a bleep to give in that moment.
It can happen when the thing you're working on doesn't
naturally connect with anything
that actually matters to you.
It doesn't light you up, it doesn't feel important,
so your brain just gets kind of sleepy.
One approach to take here is to challenge yourself
to find the care in it.
There's almost always a gem of something.
If we look deeply enough, find something in the work
that you value and connect with that.
Like maybe you've been tapped
as the data grabber for your team.
Anytime your boss has to make a presentation
or deliver an update, they're coming to you
to find all the data points they need,
and this responsibility somehow fails to let you up.
But if you take a step back, can you find something
that this data is helping you to learn?
Can you spot an exciting trend
that your boss might find useful?
Can you find other data grabbers in your organization
and try to build a little community amongst them?
Can you practice using the data to tell a bigger story, one
that you find even just a little bit compelling?
The trick here is to connect the dots.
You do not have to love every task,
but finding a thread that links to something that matters
to you will really help you start to reignite your spark.
The next situation I tend to see is, um,
I am just not sure I can do this.
Whether it's imposter syndrome or inexperience
or whatever else might be holding you back,
not thinking we're gonna succeed at something makes us
really hesitant to get started on it.
But here's the thing, motivation doesn't
thrive in a space of doubt.
If your brain doesn't believe you can succeed,
it's not gonna waste energy trying.
So where do you begin? We'll start by reminding yourself
of a time that you did do something hard.
Maybe not the same thing, maybe not even a work thing,
but something that just felt intimidating.
And then remember that you got
through it, you figured it out.
Maybe you asked for help and maybe you failed,
but you adjusted and you tried again,
and eventually you landed it.
Now break your current task into smaller pieces.
Don't think about climbing the whole mountain.
Just take one step and then another.
And listen, if you've been overestimating
how hard this is gonna be, try reframing.
Ask yourself, what is one thing I could do today
that would make this task feel just a little bit easier?
Motivation doesn't come from knowing you'll succeed.
It comes from believing you can try,
and that trying is worth it.
The next one I'm seeing a lot is, uh,
the world is distracting me and this work is feeling small.
So you know the world is like a lot right now.
And even if we're not consciously thinking about it all the
time, our bodies
and our brains are really carrying the weight of it.
If your motivation is taken a dip
because the weight of everything just feels like too much,
you are definitely not alone.
This is what we call a disruptive emotions trap.
It's what happens when our emotional bandwidth
is just maxed out.
You might feel foggy or restless or weirdly apathetic
and you're feeling depleted.
The good news, this confirms your humanity.
The move here is not to force yourself to power through,
but to pause and just name what's going on.
Ask yourself, what have I been absorbing lately from the
news, from my socials, from conversations
that might be weighing me down?
And where am I feeling that heaviness in my body,
in my mood, in my ability to focus?
And what would it look like to give myself grace instead
of feeling guilt for how I feel?
Maybe today, the most productive thing you can do is take a
walk or journal on what's going on for you,
or just give yourself permission to not be your most focused
or energized self.
And if the news has you angry, try reframing.
Ask yourself, is it possible this thing I'm reacting
to comes from ignorance or fear and not cruelty?
Can I do something small?
Can I donate or call
or volunteer something that makes me feel less powerless?
Wherever you land, remember that you're human
and you're tired and your energy will return when you treat
yourself with the same compassion you would offer a friend.
Sometimes the strategic pause is the thing
to reignite your motivation.
And when the noise of the world feels overwhelming,
sometimes the bravest thing you can do is just tune into
yourself to listen, to care,
and to start again one step at a time.
The last one I'm seeing a lot is
I just don't know what has me stuck.
And this one is sneaky.
It shows up when you're avoiding something,
but you're not even sure why.
Maybe you grab a sick day
or you keep pushing something to the bottom of your list.
You say, I'm just too busy.
But deep down, you know, something just isn't clicking.
So start with a little curiosity.
Ask yourself what exactly is making this feel
hard or unappealing?
Is it a skill gap, a confidence gap,
a missing piece of information?
Am I blaming something external
that I could actually influence here?
Sometimes all it takes is a better strategy,
a little planning, a little clarity,
or even just talking it through with someone you trust.
Motivation loves a clear path.
When we remove the fog,
the road ahead feels more travel able,
and that's when our energy returns.
Motivation isn't a switch, it's a signal.
And when we listen with care, we can find the way forward.
If you wanna dig deeper or bring this kind of work
to your team, I'd love to help.
Reach out to me anytime at rachel@leadabovenoise.com
or find me at my website, lead above noise.com.
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